LGBTQ issues are far more common than the general population realizes. Many people will say things like, "I accept gays and gay lifestyle. If that is what makes them happy, then great". And then in the same breath they pull their children in a little closer, or stop allowing their children to play with your children, or worse yet, when you come out to a friend, the friend seems more distant, more reserved, a little busier than before and suddenly afraid to hug while swearing that nothing is wrong when you question. Or when you come out to your family and they try to "get you fixed" or tell you it is just a stage, or other such comments that leave us feeling broken and unworthy.
It is the feeling that we are not like others, that we dont fit in, that we are being judged that can damage our ego and keep us from feeling whole. If you feel out of place, have been rejected by someone you love, or are still hiding your true self, I offer a safe place to work through those feelings of inadequacy. I also help couples and families when things have fallen apart, or if you just need to work a few things out.
I can help with special issues for people that identify as bisexual and/or pansexual. There are common false believes such as being judged from both straights and gays with comments such as "Bisexuals cant make up their mind", or other statements that indicate we are wrong for being open to relationships with both/all gender identities, or the false belief that if we are in a relationship with one gender we will desire a relationship with a different gender making it seem that you can not be monogamous. None of these false beliefs are true for most of us, and yet, they are so common and painful to hear from people we care about.
If you are transitioning, I can help you process some of the painful experiences you are going through. I will offer encouragement, resources, and help you see yourself as the person you feel inside. Your journey can be fun and exciting rather than constant fear and self-doubt, You will transition with the confidence and support you need.
If you are polyamorous, enjoy Kink or BDSM, or are a sex worker I am a safe place to work through some of your challenges. This is a very accepting and supportive place to get to the root of your problems and learn new ways of living your very best life.
You are not alone. Most problems can be resolved quickly and easily. You deserve happiness! Call for your first appointment and begin the life you want and deserve!
It is the feeling that we are not like others, that we dont fit in, that we are being judged that can damage our ego and keep us from feeling whole. If you feel out of place, have been rejected by someone you love, or are still hiding your true self, I offer a safe place to work through those feelings of inadequacy. I also help couples and families when things have fallen apart, or if you just need to work a few things out.
I can help with special issues for people that identify as bisexual and/or pansexual. There are common false believes such as being judged from both straights and gays with comments such as "Bisexuals cant make up their mind", or other statements that indicate we are wrong for being open to relationships with both/all gender identities, or the false belief that if we are in a relationship with one gender we will desire a relationship with a different gender making it seem that you can not be monogamous. None of these false beliefs are true for most of us, and yet, they are so common and painful to hear from people we care about.
If you are transitioning, I can help you process some of the painful experiences you are going through. I will offer encouragement, resources, and help you see yourself as the person you feel inside. Your journey can be fun and exciting rather than constant fear and self-doubt, You will transition with the confidence and support you need.
If you are polyamorous, enjoy Kink or BDSM, or are a sex worker I am a safe place to work through some of your challenges. This is a very accepting and supportive place to get to the root of your problems and learn new ways of living your very best life.
You are not alone. Most problems can be resolved quickly and easily. You deserve happiness! Call for your first appointment and begin the life you want and deserve!
How to Ruin a Perfectly Good Relationship
- I try to control you. I know whats best for you. I'll tell you what you wear, how to look, how to act, what to do, what to eat, who to spend time with, etc. If you disagree I will insult you indirectly or will use passive agressive tactics to get my way.
- I dont take responsibility for my role when things go wrong, I focus on your part.
- I often spend more money than we have.
- I work hard to win every fight, even the ones I dont care about.
- I keep score.
- I use threats.
- I find your weak spot and use it against you.
- When you try to please me, I find fault with your efforts. For example, if you give me a massage or prepare a meal for me I will tell you how to do it better.
- I hold fast to the belief: "If you loved me, you would know what I want."
- I use silence as a weapon.
- I pretend I dont hear you.
- When you try to apologize, I bring up the past, and/or more complaints, or take advantage of your vulnerability by asking for something I want.
- I claim to be the only one interested and working hard for the relationship.
- I dont ask for help.
- I confide in only my friends.
- I take it personally when you want to spend time alone.
- I discount your physical complaints.
- I give unsolicited advice because I know what is best.
- When you try to talk to me about something, I quickly make the story about me.
- I focus on changing you.
- I require a certain amount or kind of sex and expect you to meet my sexual needs whether or not you feel like it.
- I take all problems as further proof that the relationship will not work.
- I put my friends before you.
- I keep romantic gestures to a minimum.
- I focus on your faults, and deny my own.
- I let days go by without a kind word or loving gesture.
- I dismiss your interests, belittle your comments and demean your opinions by disagreeing with most things you say and will provide an exorbidant amount of evidence to prove I am right/better/wiser.
- I dont listen to your ideas or suggestions, instead I take over the conversation to promote my own ideas or suggestions.
- I ask you to share your feelings and when you do I tell you why someone in your shoes should feel different.
- I start conversations when you are busy, or better yet, exhausted.
- I let disagreements fester.
- I say what I think you want to hear, then do as I please.
- I try to make you jealous or test you in other ways to prove your love.
- I lie, manipulate, and play games to get my needs met.
Gay Tucson
Tucson is a great city for gays! In fact, did you know that the entire state of Arizona is overall, a welcoming, gay-friendly and accepting place? Some things LGBT’s should consider when looking for the best city to live.
According to Wikipedia, Tucson is a haven for musicians and artists and has 10.4 LGBT residents per 1,000. In addition to having an accepting culture focused on the arts, the cost of living in Tucson is outstanding.
Taken from GayTucson.Com Accolades. See below for link.
Comprehensive Gay Resource in Tucson-GayTucson.Com
https://www.gaytucson.com/
This site provides us with everything Gay, from integrative healthcare to Gay Pride. If you havnt been to this site you are missing out.
Tucson is a great city for gays! In fact, did you know that the entire state of Arizona is overall, a welcoming, gay-friendly and accepting place? Some things LGBT’s should consider when looking for the best city to live.
- Are there the same legal protections available to LGBT’s as to heterosexual residents?
- Are non-discrimination laws set in place to protect LGBT residents, and specifically when it comes to housing and employment?
- Is the culture warm and accepting of alternative sexual orientations and gender identities?
According to Wikipedia, Tucson is a haven for musicians and artists and has 10.4 LGBT residents per 1,000. In addition to having an accepting culture focused on the arts, the cost of living in Tucson is outstanding.
Taken from GayTucson.Com Accolades. See below for link.
Comprehensive Gay Resource in Tucson-GayTucson.Com
https://www.gaytucson.com/
This site provides us with everything Gay, from integrative healthcare to Gay Pride. If you havnt been to this site you are missing out.
Getting Married?
Are you getting married and want to be sure you are making the right decision? Do you have questions and concerns that you havnt ironed out yet? This may be the program that is what you are looking for. This program can help you learn more about out who you are, who your partner is, and whether or not getting married to this person is what you really want.
We can cover areas such as:
Communications 101
How to accept each other for who you are, celebrate the gifts you each bring to the union.
How to avoid intimacy killers
Special considerations for LGBTQ marriages
Discussions about major differences in raising children, handling finances, and family values.
Dreams, hopes, and desires
Sexuality concerns
"You don't listening to me"! How to truely listen to your partner so that they feel heard, accepted and respected.
Participate in practice arguments
Family Sculpting work that can include your inlaws, children or others of your choice
Marriage 101 Preparation Group or Individual Sessions
If you would like to know more or get started with this program, call for a free phone consulation. I look forward to meeting you!
Are you getting married and want to be sure you are making the right decision? Do you have questions and concerns that you havnt ironed out yet? This may be the program that is what you are looking for. This program can help you learn more about out who you are, who your partner is, and whether or not getting married to this person is what you really want.
We can cover areas such as:
Communications 101
How to accept each other for who you are, celebrate the gifts you each bring to the union.
How to avoid intimacy killers
Special considerations for LGBTQ marriages
Discussions about major differences in raising children, handling finances, and family values.
Dreams, hopes, and desires
Sexuality concerns
"You don't listening to me"! How to truely listen to your partner so that they feel heard, accepted and respected.
Participate in practice arguments
Family Sculpting work that can include your inlaws, children or others of your choice
Marriage 101 Preparation Group or Individual Sessions
If you would like to know more or get started with this program, call for a free phone consulation. I look forward to meeting you!
EMAIL (for fastest response) for your initial appointment
and get started with your new life!
Patricia Pritchett, LPC, NCC, CCTP, CLC
Psychotherapy, Clinical Supervision and EMDR
Zoom and in-person sessions available
NW Tucson Location: 7229 North Thornydale Rd., Suite 109, Tucson AZ 85741
(602) 791-0840 Text or voice message. I will text you back.
[email protected]
and get started with your new life!
Patricia Pritchett, LPC, NCC, CCTP, CLC
Psychotherapy, Clinical Supervision and EMDR
Zoom and in-person sessions available
NW Tucson Location: 7229 North Thornydale Rd., Suite 109, Tucson AZ 85741
(602) 791-0840 Text or voice message. I will text you back.
[email protected]